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Out of sympathy for her situation in these two aspects, I spent a long time talking with her. Eventually, I discovered that the situation was not as straightforward as it seemed %u2014 she is not actually a malicious person who would unreasonably cause trouble or insult nurses.As a veteran, much of her past experiences remain unknown to me; it is evident that she carries the weight of psychological trauma. Over the years, she has been on numerous mental health medications. Four months ago, when we began her cancer treatment, she secretly stopped taking her psychiatric medications. It wasn%u2019t until today that she revealed this to me. I believe this is a major factor contributing to her inappropriate behavior.At the same time, her relationship with her children is strained. One of her children, a 14-year-old, is very rebellious and joined a gang. He has now moved to Idaho to live with his adoptive father. Her current husband struggles with alcohol dependency%u2014although he has recently sobered up%u2014and she fears that any conversation with him might trigger his anger and lead him to start drinking again. They are currently separated. On top of all this, her mother passed away from liver cancer three months ago.She has actually been trying very hard to control herself because she is aware of that she tends to hurt others with harsh words. Consequently, she tries her best to remain silent. However, she does not realize that even without speaking, her body language can significantly impact those around her. During our conversation, I made a conscious effort to approach her with compassion, as I believe compassion is essential in any situation. This understanding has been one of my most valuable insights from years of attending Dharma assemblies, lectures, and sharing sessions at the City of Ten Thousand Buddhas. I patiently listened to her story while also sharing some of my own experiences.I can relate to those moments of deep upset or anxiety. When I find myself in such situations, I often choose to remain silent and simply focus on what needs to be done. During these moments, if someone approaches me with a question, I may not respond with my best attitude. It%u2019s not just about my words; often, my body language conveys a lack of warmth and friendliness. In this way, I feel a certain connection with